However, in the end, we both decided that every Christian, every person who believes in God, or studies the Bible, however religious, should get two things out of it.
- Virtues: We must all be virtuous above all else
- Priorities: We must have our priorities in order
If we can skim it down, if you put God first, then you are putting virtues first. If you are putting your neighbors second, then you are thus putting God first, and thus virtues first. If you are a virtuous person, then you will not only love your neighbor, you will be loved by your neighbor.
So it comes down to -- bottom line -- values and priorities.